Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Charles Murray Barstow with the following comment:
John Carr was the first husband of Elizabeth Ramsay. Elizabeth Ramsay and her father Sir Alexander Ramsay are in my family tree. I would very much appreciate having a picture of the gravestone, and thank you in advance for your kindness. Incidentally, I didn't ever get a reply from you when I last wrote to you and added a considerable amount of information to your database about Sir Alexander Ramsay, 1757-1810, the father of Sir Alexander Ramsay mentioned above. Did I somehow fail your vetting criteria? Naturally, I would also appreciate a photo of the elder Alexander Ramsay's grave, in the same cemetery. Thank you. Alan Ramsay, Adelaide, Australia.